Hi Mike,
No problem for the delay.
First upgrade your Joomla version :)
www.ostraining.com/blog/joomla/announcem...-and-how-to-upgrade/
I'm not 100% sure this will work, but you can create a menu call hidden menu and then create your menu items that you want to be registered. Set them obviously to registered and remember the alias. Let's say the alias is someurl, the full url will be
www.yoursite.com/someurl
Then in the menu that you want the link to appear create a new menu item of type external link and set the link to
www.yoursite.com/someurl. Make the menu item as public.
This is just an idea and I haven't tested it out, but it's worth a shot.
Kind regards,
Nick